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yes, talk to us
זה קצת עילג אבל נניח שזה נכון
למה לא לפנות לקב"ן או משהו?
למה לא לפנות לקב"ן או משהו?
אנונימית
you can leave the idf by saying you learn the torah
i am too a lone soldier
you talk to me
you talk to me
אהבתי ^
of course. just tell me how i can help
שואל השאלה:
i dont want to give up but i really dont think that its for me, i feel miserable and have no one to talk to, my mefaked is not helping me, im scared to ask for a kaban and i feel so disappointed in myself for almost giving up
i dont want to give up but i really dont think that its for me, i feel miserable and have no one to talk to, my mefaked is not helping me, im scared to ask for a kaban and i feel so disappointed in myself for almost giving up
אנונימית
its not really giving up if its just not for you
if u cant handle it, try to leave
if u cant handle it, try to leave
first let me say it is okay to feel as you described
secondly you should ask for kaban and explain how you feel - he/she might offer you some options that we cannot
secondly you should ask for kaban and explain how you feel - he/she might offer you some options that we cannot
the kaban is your ticket to leave the idf
also you can try the first option i gave you. but it hard to believe that they let you leave just because you started to learn the torah. instead you can use the kaban as your ticket
שואל השאלה:
the thing is that i dont really want to leave because i didnt draft just to leave but on the other hand i feel miserable every second in this system
the thing is that i dont really want to leave because i didnt draft just to leave but on the other hand i feel miserable every second in this system
אנונימית
that is why kaban is your answer. he can give you options
i would leave but try to get another perspective on that
thats the system
?do you familiar with some organisations
they might help you
?do you familiar with some organisations
they might help you
just like i said see a kaban and tell him everything you feel i know there is something called tash you can ask the kaban for a tash
שואל השאלה:
i tried talking to the mashakit tash she said theres no much she can do since my parents dont live in the country
i tried talking to the mashakit tash she said theres no much she can do since my parents dont live in the country
אנונימית
שואל השאלה:
started thinking about leaving lately but what do you guys think of people who didnt draft?
started thinking about leaving lately but what do you guys think of people who didnt draft?
אנונימית
i didnt
i went to study instead
idk i mostly regret it
i think people should have a choice but i regret mine
i went to study instead
idk i mostly regret it
i think people should have a choice but i regret mine
you can tell everything you said here to the kaban and ask him for an option to lighten your service at the idf
שואל השאלה:
thank you guys so much i appreciate it
thank you guys so much i appreciate it
אנונימית
good luck
with pleasure
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