איזה משפט עדיף לכתוב (באנגלית?)

1) This time I'm not going to be the one who's stepped on, and let them deal with their problems without involving me. Especially when they remember my existence only when they need something from me


2) This time I'm not going to be the one to be stepped on, and let them deal with their problems without involving me. Especially when they remember my existence only when they need something from me